The cheating girlfriend

This scenario is fun because it’s just enough close to home that the reality can be a turn on. The couple should choose a friend of the male’s who he knows his partner is hot for and would take for a ride in a second. The man starts the accusations, wondering where she’s been on certain nights and why she hasn’t answered her phone at certain times. As her protestations mount, she begins to falter in her ability to cover up her lies and her partner grows more and more agitated. Convinced he can show her what a real man is like in bed and to punish her for her deeds, the rough sex can begin. This rough sex role playing idea, can be fun, but just make sure you don’t uncover any actual truths!

YOU ARE MY PRISONER

You need: Four men's neckties or more elaborate restraints available from a sex-toy store or from an Internet site; and a bed, preferably with bedposts.

How to play: He ties your wrists and ankles to the bedposts and has his way with you.

Why: I have to admit, this is my favorite game -- and I never even tried it until I was in my late 30s. I find it incredibly erotic to be completely powerless, to be the absolute center of his attention and to have no responsibility for or power over what happens. I find it erotic just to think about. If you've never tried it, please do.

Variation: If you don't have bedposts, you may be able to tie your wrists to some part of your headboard or tie them together over your head or behind your back. You can get extra-long ties and be tied to the legs of the bed. This can be combined with blindfolding, but I actually prefer to see.

chrematistophilia

Chrematistophila is the sexual arousal of being mugged, blackmailed, or robbed. For some reason, prostitutes are great at this because of their professions. They have so much to gain because of their clients. They have so much on their clients. Many clients are married, high profile, or do not want it revealed that they are having same sex relations. That gives prostitutes or phone sex operators a chance to blackmail their clients. There is so much leverage over their clients.

THE NAKED CHEF

WHAT YOU’LL NEED:
A fully stocked pantry and your chef’s hat.

HOW TO PLAY:
Lie your partner down, then use their body as the base for an original recipe. For example, you may like to create a banana split… on his abs. Swirl on whipped cream and cherries, then lick it off. Once you’ve enjoyed the fruits of your labour, it’s his turn.

Why you’ll love it it:
Sex and chocolate? Life doesn’t really get any better.